How to deal with Toxic, Jealous and Insecure Co-Workers.

Do you feel like your coworkers are badmouthing you? Are gossiping about you?

Have you stopped to ask why you’re the target of this negative vibes?

This could be the reason why this is happening to you;

Maybe you’re amazing and doing great job and they’re just jealous
You may be the one drawing this negative vibe to yourself.

MAYBE YOU’RE A STRONG PERFORMER

It could be that due to your fantastic work ethics your bosses may like you and this this infuriates them.

Or they used to be the super stars before you came on board and now they feel threatened by your excellence.

These set of people need your understanding and kindness.

What if you’re the one drawing it to yourself?

It’s possible that you’re the one sending out negative vibes first and you attract it back to yourself based on your preconceptions.

They may be negative towards you because you’re already feeling negative about yourself.

They may simply be amplifying the energy you’re projecting.

How you feel about yourself and directly proportional to how people may choose to treat you.

Check yourself;

Have you been holding unto any insecure, unhappy, low self worth type of thoughts?
How do you actually feel about yourself on a daily basis?

MY CONCEPTs

The world is your mirror. The law of attraction is at work at all times.

Garbage in, garbage out.

If you believe the world is full of potential enemies, then you would meet a lot of them.

When you keep saying you can’t trust anybody but yourself, you will attract a lot of dishonest people.

This is not to blame you. You may not be aware of this. Knowing about this now will shift the situation you’re dealing with at work. You do not have control over how others choose to behave. You only have control over ; yourself, Believe, Feelings and emotions.

Communication is key

If you can change the way you feel about yourself, it’s going to change your entire situation with these toxic individuals at work.

How to shift your toxic beliefs

Write down exactly how you feel and be honest with yourself.

Forgive yourself and them.

Communicate with them if they’re worth it.

Stop giving them any reaction.

“A man or Woman cannot be uncomfortable without his or her own permission” ___ Mark Twain